Sunday, October 31, 2010

Not the best way to start a day

Today is going to be very busy and I woke up with a mind boggling headache. My entire head hurts, like sensitive to touch. We have to be to church by 8:45 and then the rest of the day will be spent setting up for the festival.

I have no idea when we plan on eating. I am trying to hurry the boys along and maybe we can get a bagel before things start.

I know this is off topic but...... As I was sitting here blogging, a woodpecker just hit our window. It was hard. He is now sitting in the tree barely moving. He has been there for quite some time. I think his headache might be worse than mine.

Saturday, October 30, 2010

Family Festival

Tomorrow is the Fall Family Festival at the church. This means that we will be there from around 8:45 a.m. until 9:45 p.m. working our fingers to the bone. This will be what some refer to as a natural fat burner.

Immediately after church we need to set up and get things in order. The fun begins at 4:30 and goes until late. Then of course we will have the clean up. Lucky me I will also have the privilege of working most of the day on Monday putting away things that are left over from Sunday.

It will be a lot of fun cooking hot dogs over open fires, making SMORES, eating popcorn, and participating in several games where candy is the prize. There will be no scary costumes or costumes of any kind for that matter.

Fell out of my chair

CAL wants an I-Pod touch for Christmas. I had been keeping an eye on the price and had a plan in mind to save that amount of money. Little did I know that Apple would release the newest version and it would cost me significantly more. Oh I hate how prices seem to go up near Christmas. They always disguise it with a new release, but bottom line I now have to come up with a lot more money.

In addition to that, the hubby had already promised him a laptop. Of course it cannot be just any laptop or a netbook it has to be a 4GB blah, blah, blah computer. The sad part here, is that those requirements are The Hubby's not CAL's.

I have no idea where he expects us to get all this money. He mouth is writing checks our bank account cannot cash. Unfortunately this is typical!

Blind leading the blind

A friend asked about blogging the other day and I am trying to get her set up. The problem is that I have been blogging for four years now and I have no clue how everything was set up then. WB did most of the technical things for me. Oh how wonderful it was to have help.

I am doing my best and trying to give her hints and suggestions. She is starting from scratch. She needs to get a blog and then we can go from there with directory submission, and other ways to attract readers.

I don't think she will have as many obstacles as I did with attracting readers. She is a single mom that adopts special needs children. She just finalized the adoption on her two year-old with Downs and her three year-old with autism. She will definitely have a lot to offer the blogging world.

Getting in Shape

CAL is going to try out for the basketball team. He doesn't really stand a good chance of making the team but last year the coach recruited him to be manger. He really enjoyed that and it allowed him to be a part of the team.

Right now he is at the courts trying to work on his shooting. Considering the number of phone calls that he has made home I don't think things are going that well.

Try-outs are in two weeks. Please start praying now! I think he is going to need all those prayers.

Friday, October 29, 2010

The Miracle of Mercy Land - Blog Tour

Mercy, mercy, mercy this book was definitely a page turner. Mercy Land is known as Doc's girl to most of Bay City. She is his right hand lady at The Banner, the only newspaper in town. They have worked together for years and Doc trusted her with his business, and his life. It was all thanks to Doc's wife Opal - who told Doc she was "the one", that he could trust.

It is in the late 1930's and suddenly a mysterious items arrives that could help Doc make all the wrongs in his life right. That is when life in Bay City changes for the worse for them. The item seems to be evil on one hand and a godsend on the other.

Doc summonses the person that he feels he needs make things right with. Little does he know that it would be the biggest mistake of his life. We cannot change time, we cannot undo past wrongs, and we most certainly should never give our souls away trying.

The Miracle of Mercy Land written by River Jordan was a very interesting and sometimes confusing story, but I did enjoy and will probably read it again when I feel I can take my time.

This book was provided by WaterBrook Multnomah Publishing Group and Kelly Blewett, Publicist, KBK Public Relations free of charge for a review.

This topic was not something that interests me but I would recommend the book to someone with different interests.

It's starting to feel a lot.......

like Christmas. I purchased my first gift the other day. It was for the hubby. By the way I didn't have a single suggestion on what his blog name should be. Does that mean I should keep calling him "the hubby"? But I don't like that........

I have a pretty long list for him and I know that I will only be able to purchase a few of those items. I hate to have to choose.

CAL's list is a lot shorter but much more expensive.

Thursday, October 28, 2010

Important Information

Did you know that most people who need and qualify for Social Security Disability Insurance and Medicare benefits are usually denied. Sometimes I truly believe the only people who collect these benefits are the people that know how to work the system - kinda like a career for them.

The good hardworking people that have paid into the system for years and need it, have a long battle ahead of them. Allsup is there to help those kinds of people. People who qualify and have paid into the system (FICA taxes). I like that - people who have paid into the system.

If you know of someone who needs a medicare adviser, needs help with Medicare part D plans, or needs someone in their corner, they should contact Allsup and see if they can help.

Tough lessons

Retaliation - it is not a good thing. The person that retaliates is ALWAYS the person caught. The one that started the entire issue walks away scott free. Why is this so hard for a 13 year-old to understand. I know that 13 year-old boys are impulsive..... Oh I cannot wait for the moment of maturity to hit. I know I should not wish for that because that means my little boy is no longer little but I do need a break.

Almost fourteen

CAL will be 14 on December 4th. In NH when you are 14 you can apply for a job. Oddly enough the grocery stores love to hire these kids. There is also a pizza place on the oval that hires them as well. Of course, he has to have parental permission at that age. I am not in favor of him working because I think he has his entire life to work....... he only has a limited number of years to be a teen. The hubby has just the opposite opinion.

I am not sure what type of job CAL would like, maybe production jobs? I know he would love the pizza place but I think the grocery store might be more fun because you see more people. I guess a job is not suppose to be about fun, is it? My son is pretty talented and from what I understand from others, a hard worker. He has neglected to show us that side. I am sure whatever they decide that CAL will give it his all.

Embarassing

I had to go to Sam's yesterday and purchase the candy for our church event that we will have this weekend. We are making candy bags for 250 kids with 20 pieces of candy in each bag. That is 5000 pieces of candy.

The cart was so full and overflowing with candy. We did have some donations so I only had to purchase 2500 pieces. That was 25 of those huge bags of candy. Each and every person that we passed in the store had some comment about our purchase. I didn't really look good for me being a person that is larger than she needs to be. My friend is very petite so I am sure they thought that was all for me! Paranoid much

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Wii Fit is my favorite

Usually CAL has several wii games on his list. This year he only has one that I know of- FIFA World Cup. He really got into the World Cup this year, spending several nights at his pastor's house watching various games.

He also informed me the other day that the wii football game that he has is no longer working. I think it is strange and I tried to get him to let me look at the disk to see if I can fix it but he doesn't seem interested in a fix, he wants a new one.

I really enjoy the wii fit and I need to get back to work. My favorite game is the balancing game that have the marbles that you have to get into the holes. I think it is called Marbles Balance Challenge. If I am correct it looks like that have a new version out. I have not mastered the second one yet. I better get to work. Honestly I enjoy all the "games" that come with the wii fit. I have not learned to enjoy the exercises.

Warehouse Sale

The CBD Warehouse sale is right around the corner, November 13th. We love the treasure hunt atmosphere that the warehouse has. I don't know how much we will have available to spend, but I do have a few gifts that I would like to purchase.

If I am honest I would love to go with a group of my lady friends but I don't think anyone enjoys this sale as much as CAL, the hubby, and I. I guess it is better to be safe than sorry.

Back when things were better financially, we would go and spend hundreds of dollars. Now we have to be more careful with our spending.

I am hoping to save enough to go to The Cheesecake Factory while we are down there but that is a HUGE expense. I don't think the boys would enjoy that as much as I do!

Certain fellow blogger

A certain fellow blogger that we all know, but I refuse to name-- cough WritersBlock cough -- is really starting to annoy me. She is constantly talking about holiday invitations that "certain" people will be receiving in the mail. She does this every year. Every year I wait next to my mailbox praying that this year will be the year that I am included in her little party, and every year I am disappointed to tears.

How rude to keep talking about how only special people receive these invitations and I am never one of those special people.

If she only knew that if she sent me an invitation I would hop on the next plane to FL and show up at her party, but I am never invited.

More Pictures

I am seriously considering starting my photo blog up again. I will not try to post a picture a day like I did before. That was just too consuming.

Below is another fall picture. This is the location that the family sits and watches the beavers swim in the river. We also sail our RC boat in this area. It is just relaxing.

The day the photo was taken it was cloudy and dark, that is why the trees in the water look more vibrant than the real trees.

Repairs

Now that we rent and do not own our house the repairs are someone else's problem. The issue thought is convincing them that we have a need and not a want. Right now I would love a new Moen kitchen faucet, the hot water is very difficult to turn on. The handle just does not move easily. This is a want that someday will turn into a need.

The hubby has a pretty good relationship with the maintenance guy in the complex, plus he goes to our church. As a matter of fact two of his kids are in CAL's class at school. I don't think that is a plus because they are not friends but the father seems like a really nice guy.

We try not to be demanding and wait until there are needs instead of wants.

Tired of The Hubby

I am so tired of calling my husband "The Hubby". He deserves a name. I have blogged for about four years now and I have yet to give him a blog name.

CAL gave himself his name. I am thinking that I need some suggestions. What should I call my husband? I love the name Rupert but that is already taken, but I would like something cool like that. I want something very unique and manly. Kinda like my hubby!

Stamps

The hubby collected stamps before CAL was born. It was something that he thought CAL might be interested in some day. Unfortunately that has not happened.

CAL is a son after his mothers own heart. He is much more interested in gold bullion coins. Who in their right mind would rather collect stamps?

Back in the good ole days I wanted our IRA to be a Gold IRA. Right now it is not an issue because we don't have an IRA or a 401K. We went through those accounts like water. If it we had invested in gold bullion, maybe we would still have something left. The retirement accounts had dropped in value and unfortunately we had to cash them out at the worst possible times.

The hubby and I have talked about trying to set a small amount aside each paycheck and see if we might be able to get ourselves back on track and get back into the savings mode. I would love to buy gold bullion each month or so.

I see the light

I can see the light at the end of the car payment tunnel. We have eleven payments to go, while that may sound like a lot, it isn't considering that we had a five year interest free loan that was extended several times because we couldn't make the payment.

I honestly hope that we trade it in soon and get a car or a mini-van. The hubby wants a mini van and CAL would like that also because he wants to be able to take two or three friends with him wherever he goes.

Gift Ideas

Both of my boys love to smell good. The other day CAL came home from school and I smelled him before I saw him. I asked what he was wearing and he said that his friend had this award winning cologne, and he really like it. I had to agree. He smelled like a little man.

I love a nice fragrance on a man, it make him more attractive. The hubby has a medicine chest full of classic colognes.

Female fragrances can sometimes hinder my ability to breathe. I don't know why but real flowery smells do not work for me. I do love a fruity smell or some of the new perfumes and colognes that are being marketed lately do not effect me as much.

I will be purchasing cologne for both the men in my life. I have been known to make a purchase based on the pretty bottle it comes in more than the smell.

Together again

CAL is suppose to have a friend meet him at youth group tonight. It is his best friend from preschool. They have not seen each other in about nine years. I bumped into her mother at the grocery store the other day and she said that we needed to get the kids together again.

I invited them to a youth group activity in a few weeks and also to Wednesday Night Youth Group. Her mom sent me an email this morning saying she would love to come. I really hope they show up.

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Love Sports

If it were up to me the TV would be tuned into sports 24/7. I know that sounds strange from a female but I really do enjoy watching baseball, basketball, and football. I guess I should not claim to be that great of a sports fan but rather a BOSTON sports fan. I only enjoy watching our teams.

I was lamenting to the hubby the other day that we needed to get home theater furniture so that I could watch all my sports in luxury. He does not enjoy sports any where near as much as I do so I don't think I sold him on the idea.

CAL and I also love to watch movies, the hubby, not so much. My chair that I sit in is over 20 years old. I think I "deserve" more, don't you?

First walk in quite some time

I made the hubby go for a walk with me today. I made a shepherds pie and while is was baking we headed out. We were not a block from the house before I was huffing and puffing. He was very gentle with me and walked pretty slow.

It felt good to be out, and the weather could not have been more beautiful. The sad part is that our fall is just about over. The leaves are rapidly falling. A good wind or rain store and it will be done.

Work Conversation

I was talking with one of my seven bosses at work and requested a golf cart to take me from property to property. The one property is about two tenths of a mile and I have to walk that quite often. Now this is a total joke and we both know it. We work for a church. A church that watches every nickel very carefully.

I was pleading my case. I said "but I am old and overweight and need a golf cart or a Segway to get me back and forth. Do you have any idea how far it is to walk down there (pointing), and that road is dangerous". My wonderful boss replied "You are not old".

Well I think that was enough said. He may not think I am old but he certainly didn't dispute the overweight comment. I guess it is time to revisit the almost weekly dream of losing weight. Maybe I will check out the hcg Austin weight loss program. Sometimes I wonder where rock bottom is going to be for me. That thought really scares me. All the lines I have drawn in the sand have been passed a long time ago.

Monday, October 25, 2010

Later and Later

CAL and I are really started to push the envelope with getting to school on time. When we lived in the old house we were farther from the school but didn't see to have trouble getting there on time. Now that we live closer it is more of a struggle.

Driving past three Dunkin Donuts on the way doesn't help either. I know that the minute we get in the car he will ask to stop. I feel bad because he cannot eat breakfast before we leave for school or he will get car sick. I am sure that by lunch he is starving.

Well I have to get off the computer or I will be the reason that we are late today. If the truth be told I am probably the reason more then he is.

I've lost my Mojo

I am so unmotivated these past few weeks. I promise myself each morning that we will go for a walk when I get home from work and then when I get home I sit my large behind down in a chair and that is it.

I have been taking the vitamins and they have been helping with the sleep issue. If you remember I was having a hard time getting through a day without taking a nap. Yesterday I did close my eyes for about 15 to 20 minutes. I really don't count that as a nap.

It is so beautiful out, I have no idea why I cannot get my body to cooperate. I have wanted to take pictures of our trees but have just used what the hubby has taken.

He has changed his routine a little and I so wish I didn't have to work. He does his praying and devotionals during a walk each morning. He has been losing some weight. I don't think walking is the best way to lose weight fast, because there is nothing fast about walking, but having him get out and do something is a plus. He is usually the inactive one.

Sunday, October 24, 2010

You are Invited to Lunch

I received an email from my office manager the other day and the title was "You are invited to Lunch". I open the email and read and sure enough my family and I are invited to lunch after church today. Wow this has never happened before. We are invited to have lunch with a few guests that the church is hosting for a few days.

I continue reading the email and the last line states. Please let me know what you will be bringing. Oh so you invite me to a lunch but in reality, I am providing lunch for these special VIP. I don't know about you but that took the fun out of it and I responded with "I am sorry but my family will not be there".

Saturday, October 23, 2010

Employee only bathroom

I have been begging my boss to make an employee only bathroom, every Monday morning as a matter of fact. I will arrive back at work and found our restroom trashed by the kids.

It seems that someone had a bright idea to make our bathrooms "children only" bathrooms for Sunday. They are pretty bad for the next day.

I have my dreams for the employee only bathroom. The first rule is that it would have to be a woman's only room. It would have those beautiful glass tiles that I have seen online recently. I would have to get opinions from others as to whether the tiles would be only on the floor, or if we should cover everything with bathroom tiles.

I think the cleaning would be much easier if they were on the walls and floor, just like the subway tiles, covering everything. Those kids can trash a bathroom is seconds.

When we lived in Syracuse we put tile down in our bathroom, it was hard work but it was worth the effort.

I will keep working on the boss!

Autumn is here




WB had requested some autumn photos. I had planned on taking CAL hiking today but the flesh was not willing.

I hope you enjoy these WB, I am sorry that you really don't get a fall in FL. I tried to get you to move here!

Nippy

It is starting to get a little chilly here in New England. We have tried to use the fireplace for the past few days but our wood is just not dry enough and it is not burning well. It is mostly smoke and smolder.

We have turned on the heat for a second time this season. Just enough to take the chill out of the air. We are now arguing about whether we need a heated blanket for the beds. I am not sure who will win this argument, CAL probably.

CAL's room is much cooler than ours, plus he likes to sleep with his door closed. I might get him a blanket for Christmas. He loves to be warm (downright hot) at night. The hubby and I would rather have the temps cooler.

Are you kidding me?

I have upset some of my high school friends by harassing them about their cheating Yankees. One of them is a very good friend and on one hand I am sorry, but on the other hand....... Give me a break. I am teasing you about a stupid baseball team. They are not God's chosen people!

I have kept quite about stupid baseball all season. This year the Yanks were better than my beloved Red Sox. I am glad the bums are out of the playoffs.

Cal's Christmas List

CAL's list is getting quite large with some expensive items being added. One of the most expensive, but most practical, is a lap top computer. He is getting to the point in school where a lap top would be very useful. Plus it would get him off my computer! Of course if he actually carries the computer back and forth to school, I will have to invest in student laptop insurance.

The other item he is requesting is a I-phone. I don't think this is going to happen because I don't want to be stuck with a $90 phone bill each month. I think the I-POD touch would be a much better choice, and he wanted that until he heard the I-Phone was coming to Verizon.

CAL is very involved with his youth group and in January they go on a weekend trip. It is quite expensive so he was asking for the money to pay for that. Otherwise, he will have to actually do work and earn the money. Oh no, say it isn't so!

God Bless Texas

It is official, the Yankees are sleeping in this morning with nothing to do for the next several months. No matter what happened in my life yesterday, that news makes everything OK today. I so dislike the Yankee's.

Obviously they were a better team than the Red Sox this year but is that really saying much when the Sox had four or five of their starting lineup out for significant parts of the season. The Sox did fantastic with what they had. They were the underdogs and showed that they are more of a "team" than the Yankees EVER will be.

Friday, October 22, 2010

What will the weekend bring?

I have several ideas for the weekend. CAL wanted to go hiking. I need to get some work done with the business. I have a book to finish for a book review. I also need to compare term life insurance pricing because we need to make some decisions regarding the hubby and our lack of insurance.

Honestly I hope that the hike wins. We went leaf peeping last week and we don't have many days left to see all the colors. I guess we will be at the mercy of the weather. I really don't have the proper hiking gear though, which is always recommended here in New England, where the weather changes at the drop of a hat.

I have some fall pictures to post so check back on Monday or Tuesday!

Time to face the music

Today I have to face the music. I won't bore you with all the details here, but I had convinced my boss that I could do a task better than the person that was currently doing it.

I have to fill batteries with water and charge them. The previous person had a history of overfilling and making a mess. Well my very first time doing the task, I used a special jug that was suppose to prevent overfilling. It didn't work. I really made a mess. I thought I had it all cleaned up but yesterday when I was recharging the batteries the water/acid was bubbling out and going all over the floor. Would you believe that the acid burnt a hole in the concrete floor in just a few hours.

Today I have to go in, remove the battery from the machine, and clean everything. Then I have to figure out how to stop the battery from overflowing while I am charging it. I will be fired if that acid damages the gym floor or the carpet that rolls over between the closet and the gym.

Thursday, October 21, 2010

Christmas list

Most years I have a hard time trying to think of gifts for the hubby. This year the problem will not be ideas but funds. I have an index card that has about fifteen things on it already.

I am totally confident that he will not pull his normal trick, which is to purchase the item that I have planned, right before the holidays.

It seems live every time I enter a store I can add something to the index card. The other day I was in the dollar store and they had some things that would work great for stocking stuffers on one of those point of purchase displays.

Some times I wish that our business was a retail business instead of a business to business out of the house.

When I ran the school store it was like my little retail business and I loved the different displays that came with some of the products. I think that might have been my true calling.

Another trip to the dentist

CAL is scheduled to start the braces within the next few weeks. Frankly as soon as we can come up with the down payment.

Tomorrow is the first of two appointments necessary to finish the root canal. Then we are just going to play things by ear. CAL will start with the bottom braces and once those teeth respond to the treatment then they will go to work on the top.

The first thing that needs to be done is a jaw spreader needs to be inserted. Then after six months of that, the top braces will go on. This entire procedure will take almost 30 months.

Setting Goals

I really need to set some goals for things that I want to get accomplished over the next few months. I think I will be dropping a large portion of my paycheck at the local hardware store.

I am determined to get some blinds in this house. Not only for privacy, that will become an issue when the leaves are off the trees, but it will also help with keeping the house warm.

I would love to tile our bathroom with glass mosaic tile. In the morning the amount of moisture that builds up in that small room after three showers is unreal. The sheet rock is just not holding up.

Then there are the fireplace doors that I would love to purchase. It is hard making those kinds of investments when there are braces and implants in our future.

Long Day

This day, for whatever reason, was such a long day. I looked at the clock on my computer sometime around 11:00 and thought for sure it was going to say 2:00. I was so tired and unmotivated.

I got my work done but I didn't go looking for more like I usually do.

The next few days things will start to pick up. We have several events at the church over the next three months and I will be kept very busy. I love busy, the days fly by and it usually means extra hours.

I deserve a Plaque!

After yesterday, I think I deserve a special plaque for not walking out. What a horrible day. I think I will forward my boss this plaques and awards link. Actually after I unloaded on him about the situation he deserves a Plaque of his own.

You would think that working in a church I would not have to deal with gossip and whispers behind my back, but that was not the case yesterday. The thing that makes me most upset is that I think I go above and beyond in my tasks. Anyone and everyone at my work knows that I will exhaust all my efforts to help them.

Anyway back to the plaque or even better the plaques that I deserve. It should be an award plaque that is prominently displayed. Do you have any idea how much plaques boost employee morale and performance? Plus it makes up for the times that they (me) have felt unappreciated.

I think it is safe to say that most employees feel under appreciated. It is nice to receive some recognition that you are doing a good job and that people notice all your hard work.

Maybe I should take my own advice on this subject and purchase a plaque of my own for my boss. There are times that I think the man must be a saint. First he deals with me and second he has much more responsibilities than the other staff members.

Yesterday as I was telling him that I had had enough of a certain person, he just nodded his head, gave me a look that said "I understand" and that was the end of our (my) conversation. I didn't feel like the things I said would be repeated or used against me.

OK, I have convinced myself, my boss deserves the plaque much more than I do.

Darn Texas

Why couldn't you put the Yankees away. I so dislike NY. I will root for anyone that is playing against them. I also feel that way about the Colts. Extreme dislike. I have not watched sports much this year which is very funny because that was the thing that I missed most when we didn't have TV for that year.

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

My Dad

I am not sure but I don't think I have ever blogged about my dad before. We have always had a strained relationship. When I was younger I viewed him as a tyrant that only had children to "serve" him. As a child I felt like a slave the majority of time.

For several years we did not speak. My parents were divorced after the hubby and I were married and I took the opportunity to repay him for all the years of slavery. When CAL was born I agreed to let my dad back in our life.

For the most part it has been a very good decision. There have been times that I will go several months without talking to him but it is not out of anger, it is out of poor timing.

Why am I telling you all this? I was looking through my photo album the other day and found my favorite picture of my dad and CAL. They are swinging on our wooden swing set. Both CAL and Dad have these huge smiles on their faces. I never remember my dad being that happy.

Things certainly have changed with Dad. I do think he is a much better grandfather than father, but from what I understand, many people think that way about their fathers.

I love my dad and he has helped our family tremendously. Dad I love you, and thank you so much for all your love and support.

It looks like braces

We had another appointment yesterday for CAL's teeth. They want to start the braces right away. They need to know if they are going to be able to move the teeth (did you know that braces don't always work?) before they decide the best way to deal with the damaged teeth.

It is going to be a long expensive process. This portion will not be covered by insurance and unfortunately we cannot wait. Please pray for us because this will be a huge financial set back. It must be done, and now, but I am so concerned about the money. I guess I am showing my spiritual immaturity. I am suppose to give the situation to God and let him take over.

Since moving we had set a very realistic budget. This will put us over the top and I pray that it will not put us in the same situation that we were in last year.

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

The list

Remember the list that I was talking about the other day. The one that is a mile long and we just keep adding to it. These are items that we need to purchase, like blinds for the windows. One other item that I need to add is sheets. When we lived in the other house we had a king size bed. That bed would have consumed the room here in the new house, plus it was very old and in bad condition. We elected to use the bed from our spare room that was purchased new when we moved into the house.

The new bed is a queen. I only had one set of matouk sheets for that bed and they are among the missing. I have been using a mattress pad and sheets that are king on the queen bed. It is quite uncomfortable. They will not stay tight and are shifting all around. Almost every day when we make the bed one of us will say...."we need to get new sheets". Now that it is fall/winter the flannel sheets are significantly cheaper than regular sheets. I saw some at Walmart the other day for $15.00. Hard to pass up but unfortunately I was broke. I hope they are still there in a few weeks.

Trip to the Airport

The trip to the airport went perfectly. We made record time with little traffic. The Boston airport is very easy to navigate and best of all it is VERY clearly marked. We didn't have any trouble finding the free cell phone lot to wait for her arrival.

The entire plan was nearly flawless. Upon her flight arrival she gave us a call and we headed to the terminal to pick her up. She didn't notice what terminal she was in just what airline she was on. After visiting two terminals and have the police honk at us we called back and requested that she ask someone what the terminal letter.

Now the best part of the trip. We stopped to The Cheesecake Factory on the way home. All I have to say is Oh My WORD! It was fantastic. The down side is that I would NEVER be able to afford that meal if I was paying.

Monday, October 18, 2010

After much arguing

After much arguing we went leaf peeping yesterday. We took the auto road to the top of Pack Monadnock. What an amazing view. The only down side was the fact that it was very cloudy so we didn't get that crisp clean view.

I promised CAL that we would go back real soon and climb to the top of the mountain instead of driving. Several years ago I made the promise to myself that when I could no longer do things with my son, that I would take my weight seriously. The time has come. I injured my foot this summer and I just cannot get that silly thing to heel. I blame all the excess weight that I carry. The time has come, and I think climbing that mountain might be the answer to my question how to burn belly fat?

Anyway back to the view. You could see Boston from the top. Not just the tops of the buildings but you could see entire buildings. It was fantastic and I cannot wait until CAL and I climb it and we get to see the view on a nice clear day.

My first pick-up!

I am so nervous today I had a hard time getting out of bed. I am having an even harder time getting ready for work. Today is my first pick-up at the airport. I have to drive into Boston and pick up a missionary, and then take her out to lunch. This is so out of my comfort zone. I thank God that I will have my friend from work with me. Actually she is in charge they are making me go along for the ride. I think they are trying to make me do things out of my comfort area on purpose.

I have NEVER driven in Boston before. I always make the hubby drive. I am having him google me a map right now.

The good news is that I will finally get to eat in the North End. We have only eaten there once. I don't think we made that great of a choice on the restaurant because it was not nearly as fantastic as everyone else claims.

Sunday, October 17, 2010

My list is a mile long

I started making a shopping list of the things that we need to purchase within the next months. The first thing is 100 gallons of heating oil, then I need some new shoes. The problem is the list is growing larger each day and nothing is being crossed off.

The other day during the downpour I was walking across the parking lot and within two steps my entire foot was covered with water. Later I turned my shoe over to find this very large hole on the bottom and it was allowing the water to flow freely.

After a year of living here I am sure the neighborhood would really like us to install blinds on the windows. I cannot believe that I have been able to survive this long without blinds.

I am thinking that the only way I am going to be able to actually make these purchases is to start looking for additional jobs. I am able to work about 30 to 34 hours a week at the church but business is still off (and probably always will be) so I need to find something that will work around my church-job schedule.

I thought I had a line on a job a few weeks ago but it didn't materialize.

I so dislike

when the hubby has audio duty at the church. I have to get up earlier on a Sunday than I have to get up during the week to make it to work on time. That is just wrong. It doesn't help that the hubby thinks he has to be at least (and I am not joking by one minute) an hour early for EVERYTHING. It doesn't matter what it is, we have to be there an hour before the agreed time.

He is getting so quirky in his old age. So we have to be ready to leave the house by 7:30 a.m. This means that I will sit at the dark church trying my best to stay awake for an hour before we see another living soul. Then another hour before church even starts.

The other thing that makes it difficult is the fact that we don't leave church until noon. This means no coffee or anything to eat until then. If I suggested some sort of breakfast the hubby would have us up at 4 a.m. instead of 5 a.m.

Saturday, October 16, 2010

Fall is upon us!

The colors of the trees are somewhat disappointing this year. It was a dry summer so they are very muted. I do have a pretty good view out my back window. I am hoping that tomorrow we will take a drive to the top of Pack Monadnock and be a leaf peeper.
I wore my first sweater today. I love the cooler weather and look forward to digging out all my
sweaters. I enjoy my winter wardrobe so much more than my summer. It is very difficult to find conservative summer clothes. Usually they reveal much more than I am willing to show or anyone else needs to see.

I love fall.

Very Domestic

I felt very domestic today. It may have been brought on out of guilt for my behavior yesterday. The husband and I got into the huge argument right before bed. I told him that he was going to have to find somewhere else to sleep.

He refused! I very calmly leaned over and dumped an entire bottle of water on his side of the bed. Would you believe that he came in and laid down anyway. I have no idea how or why he did that. Just to tick me off even more.

Anyway back to my wifely talents. I baked an apple pie and then made a casserole out of the odds and ends that we had in the house. Everything was quite tasty if I do say so myself. The apple pie was one of the best that I have made in years.

Just for Jason

My husband's son Jason loves cigars. He has a blog in which he gives his honest opinions and reviews of different stogies. He gives very intense reviews. Who knew that a cigar has different tastes, smells, and textures.

I recently stumbled across an offer for a free cigar, and I am sure that Jason would love to take advantage of that offer. Me I am not a cigar fan but I sure do wish I could enjoy them the way Jason enjoys them.

Every time I smell a cigar I look for our old neighbor Peeping Tom. He used to watch us over the fence but we could smell him coming.

Foot in Mouth Disease

I have such a way with words. I am helping my friend at work teach a "cooking club". On Friday we had our first class.

She was giving me instructions when I said to her "do we have any other cutting boards besides that nasty one that you have?" She looked at me and very calmly said "this is my cutting board".

Oops! This is the second time that I have done this with her. We were doing a wedding several months ago and there was a cookie sheet that was very well used. I basically made the same comment about that.

Friday, October 15, 2010

Decision

I have made a decision. I have the house to myself for a few hours tonight and I could not think of anything to do. I made a "suggestion call" on Facebook looking for suggestions.

I think the suggestion to make a fire and curl up with a good book is the winner. The boys will be home in a few hours so I have to get off this blog and get making a fire.

The downside to the fire is that we don't have any Fireplace accessories to control the fire. The hubby and I looked at a few things the other day at the store. I think we found a fairly inexpensive set of tools but they have to wait until payday.

I so dislike being poor.

Motel shopping

Please don't let me forgot to go motel shopping this weekend. My mom would like to come for a visit but since we no longer have room for guests in our house, she will have to stay in a motel.

I never realized it before, but there is not a major motel/hotel within a 15 miles radius of our house. There is a little motel a few miles away and she had been asking me to go check it out because they want to come for a visit.

Additional Stress

I think we have to start looking for a new car. I noticed a significant engine knock the other day. I think I have already mentioned the death wobble. The car is not paid for yet and we certainly cannot afford to make a payment and to make repairs. At this point I am not even sure that I want to fix it. It is just not a family friendly car. I think CAL will be heartbroken because he is so sure that he is going to driving it in a few years.

So sometime soon we have to start car shopping. I have really no idea what I am looking for other than it has to have room for at least five.

The hubby wants to go back to a mini van. I would not mind that but they tend to be out of our price range. I have noticed a really nice Nissan Quest, at the car dealer down the street. I think I would be ok with a mini van. It would allow us to drive for the youth events that CAL seems to attend every weekend.

I love our Jeep and really loved the Cherokee when we had that. There is nothing like a Jeep. We have had pretty good luck with the Wrangler but the Cherokee was another story. That being said, I still love a Jeep and would consider a Jeep Patriot, if we could find one at a reasonable price.

Another option would be one of those cars that is like half van half SUV. I don't think that is the technical term, it is just what I think of when I see a Chevy HHR.

Honestly though I would just love a car. I might have to wait until CAL leaves for college before I start thinking about a Fisker Karma, but a girl can dream, can't she?

My friend

I have a wonderful friend at work that keeps volunteering me for things. I love her to pieces but if she keeps it up that is how they are going to find her.

She signed me up for a seminar tomorrow, and that is OK, what is not OK is that she also signed me up to be greeter. Are you kidding me...... Greeter! Those are the people that smile, make you feel all warm and cozy and shake your hand. I am against all three things. I HATE to shake hands. I also hate Germ-X so I really just try not to touch people.

The seminar starts at 9 a.m. and my panic attacks have started already. Wish me luck!

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

CAL and school

CAL seems to be doing ok in school this year. His progress report came home and he had two B's. They were in classes that we know he is capable of A's in. He really wanted to compete in the Fine Art's Competition in the Math category, but as of today has not been invited to do so.

According to the progress report he has a 96 in Algebra 2. He was very disappointed because he was pretty sure it was going to be a 99. My boy has some skills in Math. Frankly he must get them from his father because I am horrible in math. I need help in all areas. I have not been able to help him since 4th grade math, if I am honest it was probably way before that.

I have a feeling that when CAL is older he will obtain a job that requires graphing linear equations. He does really well in other areas, with History being is struggle subject. He does not like all the dates, which I try to tell him are just NUMBERS, but he is not buying that argument.

When CAL was in the public school he did not excel in Math like he does now. I give the credit to his current teacher. She is fantastic and make his feel smart. She also has a way about her that makes adding fractions and finding the formula for volume fun. I was even a little interested when she was discussing her technique.

CAL has repeatedly asked for tutoring because he wants to get ahead, he is very interested and tries to bring math into everything. I have been looking into online tutoring, not for him however, but I sure could use some extra help. I have not really understood anything since 5th grade math.

Tutor Vista is a company that I found online. They are offering a monthly tutoring package for $99.99 a month for ALL subjects. CAL could get a little extra help in Science and History. Tutoring is available at your convenience, because we all know how things come up and tend to destroy any schedule you may have. I have used their free demo, you should try it yourself.

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Good Sales

In this Sunday's paper there were some really good sales. Now I will spend the week trying to coral the money together to make these purchases. So far NOTHING. Business stinks.

I really need to pick up some of the those storage bins that Target has on sale to start cleaning up the basement. That is the place that is still a mess from the move almost ten months ago. The bins are only $5.00 and that is the cheapest I have seen then in over a year. Yes, I have been pricing bins for that long.

Staples has their copy paper on sale so I have to make a run there everyday to buy a couple cases.

Yesterday I had to go to Walmart for work, and while I was there saw several items that we need for home, including Queen size flannel sheets for $15.00.

Darn it, let's get some business going!

Saturday, October 09, 2010

The Hubby

On Friday the hubby went with a friend to pick up a load of wood for the fireplace this winter. When we moved in we rented a unit with a fireplace. It is a little extra each month and so far we have not used it, well maybe to burn manufactured logs but that was it.

We have such great friends (and a great God), the truckload of wood was free. That is the best kind. The hubby said it was very nice seasoned hardwood. God is good. I was joking with the hubby that he can now add material handling to his resume.

He was pretty sore for the remainder of the day. When I was a kid, we always cut our own wood and it was very hard work.

Today at church someone approached him and asked if he would like to join the "firewood ministry". It is a group of guys that get together to delivery free firewood to people in need. I think he said yes but he did't have all the qualifications that they wanted...... A guy with a truck.

Where we live

I have no idea why, but we sit in just the right location to see the most beautiful rainbows. You have seen the pictures in the past so I won't bore you with additional ones (even though I did take them).

On Thursday God blessed us with another one in the same location as the previous, and it was the most vibrant one yet. It just popped out of the sky. I am pretty sure that if I walked down there I could have touched it.

At one point I looked out and the arc had disappeared. All that was left was this section that looking like it was coming from the ground up. It was very awesome.

Heading out

We will be heading over to the pumpkin festival in a few minutes. We went and walked around for a few hours last night. I love living within walking distance of a very nice little town. We had gone a couple years ago but had no idea it was a big as it was. YES I know it is very small but bigger than I remember.

CAL has a volunteer job with the best pizza place on the oval. I hope he enjoys it and works hard. He is staring to put on a little weight since school started. I think he is much more upset about not making the soccer team than he is letting on. It was difficult socially more than anything. Hopefully today will be a real fat burner for him.

I don't think that will be the case for the hubby and I because I know there are several things that I plan on eating today. Fried dough, candy apples, oh my. We tried some really nice looking onion rings last night. They were not good. Who ever heard of coating your onion rings in a pancake type batter. NOT GOOD.

Friday, October 08, 2010

Becoming a little more social

I think being social is one of my biggest struggles. I just don't enjoy getting together with people. I hate rejection and for me being social comes with rejections.

I have a co-worker that I have become pretty good friends with and we have started doing things together outside of work. The problem is we have nothing in common personally. She is all about crafts, sewing, beading, and whatnot. Me? I have no idea what I am about.

I don't enjoy shopping unless it is for something specific. I am trying. It is hard when you feel like every penny you have is already spent.

Anyway we went to breakfast last weekend and then hit some local shops. I tried to enjoy myself and have fun but she knew I was not. We are suppose to go out again sometime within the next month. We are going to try to make it a monthly habit. I do enjoy trying different breakfast places.

Cut the Budget

Somehow, someway I need to cut our budget by almost $250 per month. Yes I am serious! The only area in which that is even remotely possible is with our car. We are about a year from paying off the car but I think we are going to have to try to sell it, and purchase a clunker because as I said before I have to find $250 and that is the ONLY area that can take that much of a hit. Even there it will only get me about half way to my goal.

Hopefully the car insurance rate will also drop dramatically, helping out a little more.

I wish that business would just pick up but I think I have to give up on that dream. It is not getting better and has not for quite some time. I don't think it will EVER get better. I probably need to start looking for a full-time job because working 33 hours a week is not cutting it. Honestly I love my job and although it drives me crazy at times, I don't think I could find something I would be happier with. Maybe I should start researching an additional part-time job that the hubby would "approve".

Another appointment

I don't even know who we are seeing today, dentist, oral surgeon, orthodontist, someone else. I do know that I will be more confused after we visit than before we go.

All I know is that with each confusing opinion my bank account shrinks. The oral surgeon said to us the other day.... "you can visit 100 oral surgeons and you will probably get 100 different opinions." Oh great. In other words none of you know what the heck you are doing.

CAL's dentist is consulting with a third mystery person that is suppose to be an expert in his field (whatever that may be) and only does seminars and no longer sees patients. Again I think that is the story.

I think I need to pray more.

Tuesday, October 05, 2010

Seriously?

Honestly I am getting to the point that I am about ready to fire them all. I just spoke to the dentist again and now we are in the "he said, they said, I said" nonsense. I just wish they would confer with each other and then present the options to us.

After visiting the oral surgeon on Friday we felt pretty good. Now we talk to the dentist and he is saying that "that is not what the oral surgeon told me!".

I think that all this stress is not really on the list of healthy weight loss diets. Either way the picture that was painted to us on Friday does not look nearly as good as what we are being told today.

Oh and just to make things all the more exciting, CAL told me today that the root canal tooth is starting to hurt.

I have no idea

Why my site looks different today. I did a post at work and then emailed it to myself. After publishing the post, everything looks different.

The dentist called today. I am so confused. We have about 10 different opinions on what the next step is going to be. He said today they want to start with braces right away. One doctor is talking to Joe, the other is talking to me. Honestly I wish they would all talk to each other and then present their opinions to us.

We have an appointment on Friday. We didn't expect this expense for another six months.

New Routine

I have been taking the vitamins for a few weeks now and have already seen a big difference in how tired I feel. I have not had to take a nap at all this week. It is quite refreshing. On Sunday, the day that I almost always take a nap, I had determined that morning that I would break free from that routine.


After arriving home from Church we had a light lunch. I did the dishes and then while the boys ran to the toy store for another model, I baked apple crisp. The crisp didn’t turn out but that is for another post. After cleanup I sat down to watch some football. I could feel myself starting to get tired so I jumped up and decided to iron. CAL needs his outfit iron each day. He has to wear tan pants and a blue collared shirt. For the next two hours I ironed. I think the final count was seven pairs of pants and nine shirts.


The pants are the worst. The pockets are made from a heavier cloth so they get all bunched up in the wash and in order to make them lay flat and look nice you have to iron the pockets first. What a pain! It also means that the pants take twice as long as they should to iron. Oh and did I mention that my husband insists on pleats, that’s right, pleats. It takes me forever to get the pleat in the correct position. I know this is going to sound pathetic but…… my back is killing me today.


This morning I get up and realize that I didn’t iron anything for myself. Back to the ironing board. Everything, my skirt, shirt, and jacket all needed ironing today. Honestly I think I figured out how to build muscle fast, don’t tell anyone but, I secretly enjoyed the task.


I think I will have to make this a new routine. Minus make a really bad apple crisp.

Need a Vacation

I have worked at the church for almost a year. November 1st will be my anniversary. During that time I have taken two days off. One when CAL had his teeth knocked out and the other was just a few days ago when I was really sick.

If you want to be technical, I work six days a week. Because there are events, I usually work all of these also. I am tired. I never realized how much a person really needs vacation time. Because I am only part-time (I work about 30 to 35 hours a week) I don't get any paid vacations and there are only about six or seven days a year in which the office is closed.

Just to be clear, I think I "volunteer" an additional 10 to 15 hours a week. We don't get paid for the events or for Sunday. My point? I am tired and really need a vacation. I am finding it very difficult to get up in the morning and go to work.

Friday, October 01, 2010

Good Friend

My good friend at work falls up the stairs quite regularly. I have seen her do it many times. Finally last week I had to ask, is there a problem? She floored me with her response. She has Multiple Sclerosis. When she noticed the shock and concern on my face she stated that she has had it for years and while it is getting worse it is a very mild case.

She follows a MS Diet and usually only has problems when she is tired or stressed. I feel badly for her but she said she is lucky because there are other people out there with more severe cases. I didn't ask her about the future. I guess it is like many other diseases, I need to be more educated about it before I even ask such questions. I am going to do my research on MS treatment because I really would like to be able to offer her support and aid in the years to come.

We are two peas in a pod. Saved women with a down to earth attitude. We are both sinners and get in to trouble quite easily because of our mouths. We enjoy each others company and know that we can say just about anything without hurt feelings.

More appointments

More appointments for CAL's teeth, more money spent on appointments, and still no definite answers. They don't know, wait and see, we cannot wait, it might work, it won't work at all, spend $1,000+ and it might work for a short period of time, save the tooth at all costs, just pull it and be done with it.

I love opinions.