Yesterday we went shopping in the morning and then watched one of my favorite movies "For the Boys" Today we went shopping and then watched football. My beloved Patriots won again. The next couple of weeks are going to be very busy so it was nice to have a stress free weekend. This week is the book fair at our school. Since I am co-chairperson I have to pick up the slack. I have to work as a para for Monday and Tuesday. My husband is going to help when he can. Then is Halloween. I opened my mouth and put my self in a no-win situation at school. Long story short. I have to make a party happen where it is going to be difficult. Then is the Sock Hop at the school. My husband is the person in charge. He has done more this year than last. I am not sure I agree with many of his decisions but "he is in charge" as he has pointed out to me. He is very scary when he feels he is in charge. He thinks that means he answers to no one. He doesn't ask opinions, he doesn't care. I don't know, I just don't think that is the way to run things. I personally think you should make your valuable people feel like they have a say. Our current PTO president runs things like my husband. He hates it. But of course he doesn't see that in himself. The Sock Hop is very stressful because of my husbands attitude. I said I would take care of volunteers and that was it. So far, so good but I just know that when the final seconds arrive he is going to be screaming to me to "help" him get things done. He waits for the last minute for everything. Always has.... Always will.
My friends and I wanted to climb the mountain again but I don't think that is going to happen. I tried to get my husband to go for a bike ride or climb this weekend. He is just a very inactive person. I have always been very active and I see that side of my sliding away and some days that really bothers me. My husband is much older than I. Most of the time that age difference does not affect us. Sometimes it is a HUGE problem.